Retirement Rethought
Having had the stroke nearly a year ago, I have been forced to redefine my "retirement". There are some things I am no longer able to do. There are other things that take longer but can still be done. Yet other things that must be relearned but once mastered are much like they once were. That is comparatively rare though! Most things require adaptations and modification! Last night for example, I made a meatloaf using half venison and half hamburger. In the past the preparation time would have been 15 to 20 minutes. Yesterday it was close to 45 minutes! Also carrying it to and from the oven was quite an adventure! Once upon a when, that was no problem. Now however, with a wonky right hand, and arthritis setting up, as well as problems walking without something to aid with balancing, it was a slow challenge! The thing to remember though, is that I accomplished it! This is the case with many things. I have to take my time and be careful and patient! Many things can be accomplished if one keeps this in mind! One also has to bear in mind to not look back at what once was lest one becomes discouraged by what now is! One must view each day as an adventure and not have specific expectations! It is all well and good to have plans, but realize that those plans can go awry with no warning! Retirement is what you make it, composed of attitude, chance, and being willing to make the best of any situation.
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