With a little help from friends

The other day I happened to mention that I sent a text to several friends that mean a lot to me. I do it on a daily basis! I started to think about it! I do it for myself mostly!  I woke up on June 5, 2024 only because a co-worker came to see what was going on since I didn't show up for work! Since I live alone, it was only too easy to lay there until someone checked on me! By texting daily, I am letting someone know that I woke up each day! Conversely it lets some people know I'm up and starting the day. I almost didn't wake up last year! That ts a real wake up call - pardon the pun! I also realized that a number of people cared, or I cared about certain people more than I realized at the time! Some others I added to that short list as time went on. It also allowed me the chance to let these people know I care about them. This has been a humbling experience in many ways! I have learned to rely on these people to show me just how precious being simply alive is! I like being alone but I now realize that it comes with some obligations too. People do care, and we care about others. We need to remind people that they are important, and we are important to others! 

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